If everybody would just ...
- mind their own business
- lighten up a little
- lay their cards on the table
- get organized
- decide what they want
- sit down in a circle
- look at the positive
- plant a little patch
- love and respect each other
- do their share
- stop judging
- obey the Golden Rule
- pull together
- eat an apple a day
- begin picking up after themselves
- behave as we do
- tell the truth
- take a breather
- play and stop yelling
- listen
- hang on
- pass their wallets around
- lend a hand occasionally
- concentrate on their personal strengths
- play it safe
- be patient
- be fair
- treat others as they would be treated
- promise not to do it again
- shut up for ten days in a row
- leave me alone
- stop trying so hard
- be frank and sincere
- stop getting in the way
- learn the basic rules of conduct for life
- relax and let me do it
[tidbits gathered through the course of our research]